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Grin Grabbing, Confidence Catching

It has been proven that emotional contagion is a real phenomenon.  The kind of people you are around most often is directly related to the emotional state you most often exude.  I’ve always been a diehard advocate in the idea of having a positive outlook on life.  Even through the stresses and annoyances we face in life, why sulk when you can toast to the fact that you’re still living and breathing?  Unfortunately, I haven’t had the advantage of surrounding myself with other people who have similar interests – until now. 

There’s something about graduate school that empowers students to feel confident and inspired, no matter how different the walks of life they come from.  Graduate students only make up a small portion of the entire population, yet they have these unyielding beliefs in themselves that anything in the world is possible.  It’s absolutely extraordinary.   I’m a first generation female college graduate.  I’m also the first person in my family to have ever even attempted graduate school.  Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not declaring bragging rights.  I’m stressing the utter necessity to maintain an ambitious attitude, especially when you have no one else to look up to.  As someone who has lived her entire life as her own advocate, I am completely fascinated by this opportunity to be surrounded by such amazing individuals. 

Positivity.  Seems so simple, except for the fact that we live in a city where people will anxiously honk at you if you’re even a millisecond late after the light turns green.  A city where the only people who smile back at you are the retirees walking their dogs down the block.  Will Smith once said, “You can tell how far you’ll go in life by the five people you hang out with.”  So surround yourself with positive energy and happy people…it’s contagious.

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